Three Kinds of Women
American woman does not comprise a homogenous, harmonious whole, rather she wears three different stripes.
Feminine woman wants what all feminine women have wanted throughout history, a husband, children, a family, and all the domestic-related things. Using the feminine wiles Mother Nature gifted her with, she powers her man from the home to do her bidding--the creation of the next generation, or quite simply "what it's all about". The wise among her ranks know that if she makes him king she will have her castle, that if she supports him emotionally, socially, and with sage advice when called upon, gives him a stable home with children to raise and support, he will outperform himself by a factor of five, which is ten times more than she would have wrested from the outside world. Feminine woman craves the joys of motherhood, and feminity, and friends, and family, and cannot imagine a future bereft of these things when she grows old and gray. Feminine woman wields the soft power and in this way wields all of the power that matters. If she works she should work from home, or she should work in feminine fields (flowers, animals, clothing, etc.), or she should have part-time or flexible work hours (such as real estate sales, for example) where she can tend to the home fires.
Masculine woman, through an accident of biology, has a touch more man in her, which shows in her features and her thinking and her skills. She is behind Feminism, telling all womankind how to be happy--but really only relaying what she thinks would make her happy, which are masculine ideals of self-reliance, wealth creation, making it in the world. Due to her biology she has no sexual or amorous interest in men, nor does she want to have and raise his children. Her pursuits and her outlook are masculine. She should be in the workplace as the home is not the great source of comfort and life to her that it is for her feminine counterpart.
Exceptional woman is neither overly feminine nor overly masculine, but is not usually found with super-model looks (though it does happen). Her skills are so clearly superior to everyone around her, male and female, that she naturally vaunts to the top in everything she does. Which is rightly so, as she has so much to contribute. But it must also be so, that she is thus exceptionally gifted, so as to override her biological imperative to make a home and support her man. While nobody should (or could or would) stand in her way, nobody should give her special treatment either. She does not need it, nor does she appreciate it. Best to let her rise up through the ranks like everyone else, learning how to work in a male culture, gaining the respect and support of men, and providing value all along the way.


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